Welcome to the official site of “Where the River Bends”, a profound and deeply moving memoir that journeys through the life of a unique and resilient individual. Written by a retired pharmacist with over seventy years of life experience, this book is not just a personal story but a reflection on the broader human condition. The author, a proud advocate for disability and pro-transgender issues, delves into themes of self-discovery, acceptance, and the embrace of “otherness.”

“Where the River Bends” chronicles the author’s experiences across various professions and geographical locations, from bustling urban centers like Toronto and Hamilton to the serene, smaller towns of Wheatley and Chapleau. With careers spanning from auto factory laborer to licensed pharmacist, and a personal life marked by loss, responsibility, and perseverance, this book is a testimony to resilience and the human spirit. The author’s life journey is as diverse as it is relatable, from growing up as a baby boomer to navigating the complexities of adulthood while dealing with mental health challenges such as anxiety, depression, and autism spectrum disorder.

This inaugural book not only reflects on personal struggles but also critiques and celebrates the society we live in. Through vivid storytelling, it examines the treatment of those who are perceived as different, while celebrating family ties and moments of good fortune. Spanning seven decades, the book also offers commentary on major world events, including the Cuban Missile Crisis, the Vietnam War, and 9/11.

With a blend of humor, poetry, and heart, Where the River Bends invites readers to laugh, cry, and reflect on the meaning of life, acceptance, and the celebration of one’s “otherness.” Join us on this remarkable journey of self-discovery and embrace the beauty in the bends of life’s river.